WKWKWK maju luuuu sini!!

Nope. Just wondering, no offense. And still wondering though, why didnt you post anything on or gram, and didnt answer anything in here until yesterday? You went missing

why on earth should i be looking sad...? you wanted me to mourn over that much?

MAKASIH BANYAAK!! agak lebay ya kuat seperti bajanya. have a nice day anonnn! semoga harimu baik selalu yaa <3

asli kamu baru nanyain ini sah setaun lebih? wkakak btw bahasanya jgn & selingkuhan gt dong.. jd offensive bgt kedengerannya. i dont hold grudges, bahasan soal itu jg udh terlalu basi gasih? wkwk. aku sm dia baik2 aja dan all clear, we`re living our own life.

Yang jadi selingkuhan mantanmu dulu

astaga baru refresh dan baru ada wkwk nya siapa...

buat siapa tu? wkwkw

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duaduanya wkwj

mantan pacar apa mantan gebetan? wqwq

Emang gimana dulu? Akhirnya gimana?

berat banget bre, kayak mau lepas takut, mau bertahan juga capek banget heu

bawel

AAAAA who are uuu!!! makasi banyakkkk

lah aku temenann wkwkkw tp trgtg mantannya kayak apa jg sih. kalau mrk mo temenan ya udah, ngga juga gapapa. im good. tp kl br putus biasanya gabisa gasihh? wkwk

you are very welcome! feel free to ask another things. have a nice day! :)

Thx for your opinion zahnia :), I am agree with some of your opinion, It`s not a heavy prespective :), you can still mainn it. I like your opinion, next i will ask another question, Thx you zahnia, enjoy your day, cheers :))

i personally ga terlalu suka sm org yg clingy (skrg sih, gatau nanti), kl berlebihan jatohnya ntar rl dan malah seakan2 my world only revolves around him, pdhl ga seharusnya gt. sama respect each other`s values juga, krn when you`re in a relationship, dont expect them to change. you sign up for it, you should`ve known the consequences already. trs jg able to bring the best version of us, tp bs juga handle our lowest point in life wisely. hahaha berat bgt ya?

for me personally, a healthy relationship consists of two people being each other`s support system. mnrt ku beda2 sih kriterianya gmn tp utamanya itu. bcs i`ve been in a very toxic one, jd relationship yg ga mempermasalahkan hal kecil dan insignificant, respect each other`s decision, encourage us to be better, push our boundaries to develop and grow ourself, dan yg terpenting, ga buat kt jd terlalu dependent ke significant other. clingy boleh, tp sesuai sikon aja gituu

Write your opinion here please :)

hiii there! sure, what can i help? :)

lagi males aja hwehehe krn bbrp alasan tp gbs disebutin hihi

wkwk lebay luuu, makasi ya tp haha

depending on who`s asking

knp ya pertanyaannya gini doang.. mmm, kan baru deket ya. brrt emg he was never mine to begin with. untung masih deket kan taunya, gmn kalau pas udh pacaran? hahaha sakit hati sih ya pasti, cm yaudah lah mo gmn lg juga. gbs maksa perasaan org kan.. mgkn aku bakal menjauh dr org tsb dan start to heal myself with the hurtful truths. sekali lagi, lessons learned :)

there is no time wasted if you ever felt happy about it, even for once. kalau apa yg bakal aku lakuin, ya aku bersyukur udah diberikan petunjuk kalau dia bukan orangnya. sedih sih mgn awal2nya dan i would mostly blame myself for trusting people way too easy. but then i remember that God never sleeps, that ending might lead to somewhere more beautiful than i thought of. no regrets, only lessons learned :)

Wkwk emang kenapa juga harus ga berani? Maksudku udah dipc zahnia juga ditanyain ini beneran aku apa bukan

Clearly u get me wrong dude

Karna udah dipc sama zahnia soal ini hehe :)

How dare you came up to her platform like this? Lol

Halo bawah zahnia. Iya, itu aku hehe. Tapi baru inget kalo zahnia paling gak suka kalo ada yang kenal sama dia tapi ngirim secreto. Makanya punyaku gak dibalesin haha :p

loh who are you... kok tau ada yg prnh ngasih tau lagu ini... :(

Again, this statement tho.... is this the person who told zahnia about this song for the first fime?

Inget ya, kalo sedih ada yang bawain kado sebusur pelangi

i know you. Aamiin, thank you!

a beginning had always been beautiful, right? the more i swim, the more i realize.

Kalo no growth kenapa kok merasa cocok dan nyaman?

ada bbrp hal yg lebih baik ga dipaksain. i see no growth there.

kalau doi/pacar mah beda lagi, masa sih ga kepo sm kehidupannya mereka? wkekek

Story pacar juga jarang diliat dong?

u siapaa wkwk aku emg gprnh liatin story org btw. paling liat yg story tmn dkt ku doang, itupun jarang2 juga. aku jrg kepo sm orang wkwkw

c apaan??? ck? wkwk udaaah lama kaleee

nanti kalau udah capek banget jg berhenti sndiri. if he`s that into you, you`ll see his efforts kok. if he`s sure about you, he`ll let you know

Susah yaaa jah. Cape banget ditarik ulur;(

knp jg hrs ga dibales? he is only a friend after all wkwkw. km mgkn cape krn km berharap lebih, yuk pelan2 mindsetnya diubah kalau dia cm temen, biar ga capek mikirnya wkwk

Tapi emang ngga cape ya jah? Terus kalo dia chat kamu balesin aja gitu? Aku capek berharap terus dijatuhin terus jah:(

udh smpe ke fase dmn mikirnya if he wants to come then come, i`ll welcome him. if he wants to leave then go, i`ll hold the door open. if he wants to stay then stay, i`ll treat him good. krn udah capek juga berekspektasi kalau ujungnya sama aja wkwk if its meant to be it will be lah

wkwk i get used to people leaving and coming setaun belakangan ini. along all those journeys, i found one who seemed so trusting in the beginning. tp ya, ternyata ga sesuai sama ekspektasi ku juga pd akhirnya. sedih sih jelas ya, krn ya gmn namanya dh ngerasa cocok trs trnyt ga lanjut wkwk tp trs aku sadar, aku gak bisa maksa orang. jd skg yaudah lah mau gmn lg, His timing aja mikirnya. pst ada lesson to learn. aku jg gak menutup diri, he knows where and how to find me

krn mnrt ku the journey is always about yourself, tanpa perlu melibatkan orang lain. kan ga adil aja mnrt ku buat org yg dijadiin distraksinya. just bcs you are still hurt doesnt mean that you have this free pass to hurt everyone else and to be that ty. grow up and be wise lah, healing doesn`t need the help of any other person.

knp org2 hobi bgt ngirim pagi2 si? wkwk. ya gapapa kalau masih terjebak, kan kt gatau how much that past means to that person kan. aku percaya kalau healing takes time and everyone has their own pace & timeline, nothing to judge about it. kt jg gatau how much pain and wounds yang dia punya, jd kl memang blm bs move forward, ya mnrt ku gpp drpd dipaksain. yg ptg, selama healing, jangan nyakitin org lain aja sih. kayak nyari pelarian/pelampiasan, ato distraksi doang

you`re weird but i like weird, your words soothe me, i like your thoughts and your perspectives, i love discussing with you, you are such a good help, dan lain lain

lol what do you expect me to answer? nyebutin orangnya? ya nggak mgkn lah :)) ntr kl aku anggep mrk deketin taunya mrk cm mau temenan doang, aku yg dikira kegeeran kan? wkwk

Kenapa kamu selalu bilang gak ada yang deket? Padahal banyak

someone yg ga jadian siapa anjay wkwkwk

Maksudnya taun lalu tuh mantan? Atau someone yang ga jadian ituu?

dulunya kapan? setaun yg lalu mah iya ada

Tapi dulu ada?

wkwkwk asliii suru jwb gimana sih org bnrn gada masa boongin orang blg ada

Masa sih ga ada

tidak adaaaa, sudah cukup pertanyaan sprt ini ya krn memang gada

half ass efforts bcs i cant stand in between, kecoa, judgemental people, alasan ketiduran, dikasianin orang, sama apalagi ya ingetnya itu doang wkwk

Tell me things you dont like

the moon, anything jazz and acoustic (both piano and guitar), classical music (mozart is my personal fav), the skies (and everything in them like the stars, rainbows, clouds, etc), avatar the legend of aang!!!! ncis (i watched all the 17 seasons), the smell of books, cartoons and animation movies, CAT MEMES (or anything meme actually), also im a big fan of disney

wow really? guess u r wrong this time

doe you really need to sleep, do you think i dont notice that you always send this between 2-5am?

sorry buddy, i cant bring that deaf longbearded oldman alongside with me

i know who you are. meet me at the rivendell, take gandalf with you

ding ding ding gandalf eats his own pudding

do you bring gandalf with you?

wkwkw kl masih gebetan kan km gabisa ngatur dong, org bkn siapa2nya wkwkw. kl pacar, ya dikomunikasiin aja kl misal km gasuka/risih kl dia gt, hrsnya sama2 menghargai aja siiii biar sama2 enak. tp mnrt ku selama bukan mrk duluan yg ngechat, aku fine2 aja si, yg ptg ga intens aja. dl aku gt si, tp kl skg gataw bakal sensi apa ngga krn trust issues ku sudah menggunung wkwkw lhah curhat non aq:(

WKWKWK gmn, km mau memanaskan diri?

yg jelas rasanya gak enak

nothing new actually. only back to square one, but different

What just hapd?

i still do. even after what just hapd these past weeks that made me questioning love all over again, i still do.

yaa emang siapa si yg gak mau pny orang yg bs dicerin every little dels of your day? im not gonna be denial juga. tp emang blm dipertemukan sama Allah ajaa wkwk mgkn mnrt Allah aku blm butuh.. His timing, not mine:)

emmmm kan dia temen ku, regardless of how they behave. selama ga ngerugiin aku, ya ttp temenan aja kayak biasa krn aku jg bukan tipe yg ngurusin urusan org juga... jd ya kayak "ohh cukup tau aja" gt tanpa harus berhenti berteman

lah ini siapaa e? wkwk apa mgkn aku prnh kali ya dijadiin pelarian ato pelampiasan gt, tp aku yg ga ngerasa wkwkw

Hah emang siapaa? Wkwk

bukan zahnia yang pernah dijadiin pelarian wkwkwk

nga pernaah ngerasain breee maap wkwk tp dr yg aku denger2 emg gausa deh kayaknya berharap sm org yg masa lalunya blm selesai, apapun urusannya. capek sisss wkwkwk

WKWKWK marahinnnn parabet kayaknya new comer deh diaa. aku aja itungannya ini udh bodoh bgt krn udh jelas2 alasan putusnya gt tp moveonnya lama bgt??? wkwk kl org2 nganggepnya cepet malah Alhamdulillah brrt mnrt kalian aku ga bodo2 bgt wkwkw

Sotoy lo anjay, gatau kan lo gomana perjuangan zahnia taun lalu

Enak yaa rti jd km, soalnya cepet move on nya

i am NOT hiding my pain. my wound is clearly open for everyone to see, back then. aku nyerin bisa biasa aja ya krn memang itu udah jd suatu hal yg amat sangat biasa di hidup ku. i get used to it. dan knp jg hrs merasa sakit hati lg? it was way too old. udah bukan fasenya lg nangisin gituan. pas memang masih healing and wounded, aku kl nyerin jg nangis2 kok dulu bgt. i grew up and decided to think way more logically, thats it. i was stupid back then and i admit it. lesson learned dan yaudah

bukan betah. its not like i had a choice:(

dr kmrn doi doi mulu siapa siii maksudnya org gada wkwkw

in order to amuse me you have to touch the core of my soul. anjayyy berat bet bahasanya

*so

wkakaka kok di mimpi aja aku bisa marah marah to:(

Gatauu padahal aku gak pernah ketemu mamamu. Mimpinya sih kamu marah sama aku, terus mamamu ikut murka sama aku

ya Allah gada lg yg lebih random ini?? wkwkw mimpiin apa tuh

WKAKAKAK yaampun aku jujur ketawaa, what kind of joke is this??? km lg sarkas apa serius apa emg bercanda??? wkwkw i didnt know being independent was a mistake lol. emmm kl soal cuek mgkn km nya yg gatau ajaah wkwk kl secuek itu gamungkin gasi aku diomongin bucin? WKWK dahlaaah mager bgt w balesnya :( TP MAKASIH YAAA BAWAH KUUUU udah menjawab!!! wkwkwk luvssss

And i more than just know that she used to put so much attention and affection to him

If he can`t accept her and her capability, then i guess he is not good enough for her. The right partner should be supporting you develop yourself and bring the best version of you instead of lower your own value. Btw this isn`t zahnia. I`m just saying my opinion about this issue

enggak wkwk sering ganti foto doang

setaun yg lalu breee

wkwk tolong lahhh kl ngasi pertanyaan yg agak logic dikit :))))

aaa makasi banyaaak siapapun iniiii HUHUHU km cenayang ya?! kalau udah berbuat baik tapi feedback nya ga sesuai, yaudah gapapa. seenggaknya i`ve got nothing to lose kan? hehehe tp makaciiii banyak! this is so kind and thoughtful of you!! smg kamu bahagia selaluuu. luv gede <3

wkwkw oalah... kok bs ya kebacaa :`))

Ayahmu masuk berita

wkwkwk lihat dimanaa? salah orang kalii

Berarti bener, pantesan aku pernah liat ayahmu

wkwk ah masa nanya ginian di secreto siii

trimikisiyyy! siapa neee

ghost of youuu!!!! huhu on repeat bgtt. sm home to you, ayo follow spotify ku aja xxvizahnia biar tau!!! wkwk shamelessly promoting myself

WKWKKWK aku dpt pertanyaan ini sering... bgt...

yaah blm kenal aja kali kamuu

setara ato above kan relatif yhaa wkwk

Harus setara atau above you ya?

wkwk terlalu terbuka ah kl ngmgnya di sini

Sejauh apa bibit bobot bebetnya jah?

tentu dong... bibit bobot bebetnya harus jelas

wkwkwkw halaaahh lg pd knp siii org2 tu wkwk. basi banget asli topik hafiya mahhh, new comer ya kamu? wkwkw

perasaan dh sering ngmg kl aku blm pcrn lg ya krn blm nemu yg cocok. sekalinya nemu yg cocok eh tidak berjalan mulus. ya gt trs siklusnya hhhhh bukan krn trauma ato blm siap pcrn lg. ya krn memang blm nemu aja

Emang kenapa jaah

lu ngetik ini sarcasm, bercanda, ato gmn sih y gue tanya ni beneran

nyaaaw this is like super super sweet! and thoughtful :`))) thank you soooo much for these kind and warm hearted messages! i appreciate that a lot. good luck to you too, hope life surrounds you with happiness yaaa! thank you so much for being kind <3

tidak ada lol

iyaaa hahahaha

wkwkwkw ingin ketawa krn dh sering bgt kayaknya aku bilang kalau what you see through social media isnt always the truth. you are only seeing the version of myself that i choose to share. km cm gatau aja what i`ve been through all these times and the efforts i made to finally reach this part. aku beli barang2 itu juga hasil nabung dr gaji part time dan nyisihin uang beasiswa. life has been tough for me but i know that im strong enough to handle that. have a nice day!

jiaaahh orang iseng skg kerjaannya nyepikin orang yaa

gak ada tanggapan yg gmn2 sih.. i have nothing against them dan aku netral2 aja selama itu ngga ganggu hidup ku krn aku jujur gatahan sm asap rokok, tmn2 ku jg jarang yg ngeroko, jd kl pun lg di sekitaran cowo yg ngeroko pun aku ga yg sebel ato gmn gt. yg ptg sama2 respect pilihan masing2 ajaa

wkwkw lah emang kenapaa? kan gpp dong ada playlist buat reminder kl ternyata pernah se-down itu dalam hidup wkwkw nothing serious about it kok. dan bahkan kl dgrin playlistnya pun aku dh ngga mikir orangnya, tp mikir gmn dl aku bs overcome all those heartbreaks wkwk dan ga sehebat itu, you guys are just way too consumed about my story with him, krn skg bnr2 idup ku gada sangkut pautnya sm diaa wkwk

bantal gulinggg ini dekat sekali

wkwkwk ya dari dulu gapernah nutup diri juga kok..

haaaaiii

creepy and cringe at the same time lel. just leave, please. i dont have time and energy for this kind of bs