hi hi! pas banget kulit aku lg super dry... untuk skg aku pakainya bodywash dari dove yg extra moisturizing, body lotion campur2 sih kadang the bath box (yg apa aja tp paling suka yg almond dolce!), sensatia botanicals, aveeno yg biruu buat extra dry, atau l`occitane body milk yg almond juga. untuk body er kadang pakai the body shop yang almond milk kl butuh extra care :) didouble sama sunblock nya nivea. untuk lipcare aku pakai nivea lip therapy creme brulee (night), dove lipbalm yg hydro (daily), laneige lip sleeping mask berry (night), sensatia botanicals yg vanilla (daily), dan skin game dew me lip oil (daily). sebamed yg spf juga good & handy kalau mau coba2! hope this helps :)

baruuu baca wqwqwq iyaa Alhamdulillah bgt kalau pd mikirnya hidup ku seneng2 trs 🥹 aku Aamiin-in sebanyak2nya semoga memang se-perfect ituuu, manifesting dulu bismillah 🥹 kalau balesan klisenya: km gatau gmn di blkg layar, ups & downs nyaa. cmn kan emg not everyone deserves to know all your side of story, dan ya emang benerr, you guys only see things that i allow you to see ☺️ downs-ku jg banyak bgt ko, gagal ku di 2021 kemaren buanyaaaaak bgt2 smp aku mikir jatah gagal ku kepakai semua ya pas 2021 ini? sampai aku mikir kalau aku kurang apasih berdoa & usahanya sampai aku gagal terus? one of the lowest points in my life :) tp aku yakin where God guides He provides dan great things take time. so i struggle in patience and pray. miracles do happen if you set your mindset right 🤗

You just don`t know the struggle behind it. It seems easy since you only see the result and not the process

berat bgt ya pertanyaannya 😳 tp for me, my relationship should be my safe haven and comforting shelter... someone that i can be fun and serious with. pokonya bnr2 a place where you can comfortly call home. your safest place to be yourself and to tell all the things you want to without thinking anything bad about it.

Hai

Wkwkwk apa ini indra apa/siapa 🤣😅

Wkwk sudah terjawab

Masnya suka ngecekin secreto ku, ayo jawab sendiri beb

Enggaaa 😂😂 tmn2 jg jd pd nge WA astagaaa hahahahaha

Hahh astagaa siapaa 🥲 kl dh mo nikah kyknya aku dh ga nabung lg gak sih :"""" tp Aamiin sp tau dpt rezeki nomplokkk

Kasar verbally & physically, banyak kritik tp cenderung insulting/ngerendahin, gak bisa diajak discuss & egois, doesnt admit and say sorry when he is wrong, effortless lol & gak ngehargain aku sbg pasangan :)

Pernah donggg wkwkw masa gprnh 🥲 awal2 aku srg bgt berantem, ya wajar si krn masi penyesuaian. Kl skg paling berantemnya pas aku lg pms aja wkwkw kl berantem hebat gt gapernah (jgn sampai) tp kl yg ngambek/bete biasa itu ya paling sebulan sekali pas lg pms hahaha

Pernah berantem g si?

Susah sih engga... berat jg engga. Yg ptg komunikasinya aja yg lancar. Lancar ya, ga sering2 bgt jg gpp yg ptg lancar. Aku sm masnya jg ktmunya sebulan sekali 🥲 susahnya kl lg kangen wqwqwq gadeng. Tipsnya apa ya aku jg blm lama2 bgt yg kyk setaun lebih 😭 tp aku gprnh bosen jg sih, ya mgkn krn jrg ktmunya jd tiap waktunya ktmu tuh berharga bgt 🥲 aku sm masnya krn sama2 kerja jd kl pagi-malem gt kdg slowresp ya gamasalah krn emg kerja, trs malemnya br deh kt telponan (kl dia wfo), kl wfh mah telp siang2 jg wkwkw aku yg wfh terus ngalahh. Yaa gmn caranya manage waktu & komunikasi ajasiih yg penting

4.5th kali yaaa hahaha

Mas doi beda berap thn si sama km?

Enggaaa siiih, aku dl prnh main jg soalnya sekitar thn 2019 dan gprnh sih dpt yg zonk (jgn sampai amit2) wqwq semuanya baik2. Ya intinya mah pinter2 milih aja kali ya, intensinya nyari temen aja dulu, cocok ya syukur engga yawes wkwkwkw kl crt ku sm masnya ayo dm aku aja tak cerin delnya nanti krn penuh drama awalnya wkwkw

Kamu ga takut kah main dating app? Gimana ceritanya

Biasa aja sih soalnya ktmunya di dating app pas aku sehari doang di jkt (emg sengaja download pas itu) HAHAHA

Wqwqwq sbg anak yg suka insecure (sampai skg) soal fisik, aku personally gak terlalu seneng... jd biasanya aku akan mikir ttg orgnya kayak "ooh ternyata dia gt" aplg kl di public. Mnrt ku ya knp kl fisik kan bkn kt yg ngatur kyk gmn, dan gak smua org pny waktu & dana buat jd cakep. Kl dia nyamannya gitu yaudah kan.. aku jujur gapaham apa tujuannya org komenin fisik org, aplg bercandain, kyk jahat bgt gak sih wkwkwkwk

Mana ada ga bersyukur wkwkw I am not sharing anything 🙂🙏🏻

Pas aku umur 24 wqwqwqwq

Emang target kapan?

Siap ga siap kyknya thn depan ttp hrs siap deh wkwkwkwkw

C apa cowo?? Ya kl aku personally menganggap itu bkn suatu hal yg aku tolerate... krn I have been in that situation before and trust me I don`t want the same thing hapd ever again. Yg ptg tau boundaries & gak mentel juga. Krn aku bkn tipe yg cemburuan jg jd aku gak akan membatasi dia mau komunikasi sm siapa, tp kl dh keseringan & mentel aku jelas tegur sih wqwqwq. Aku sm mantan ku dulu srg berantem... dan ya kl dipikir2 capek jg gak sih kl sering berantem? Aku gak bisa nilai pantas diperjuangkan ato nggaknya krn kalian yg menjalani & tau "berantem"-nya kayak gmn. Mnrt ku setiap org batas toleransinya di suatu hubungan beda2 jadi ya yg bs nilai diri sendiri :) tp kalau bs nggak berantem, knp hrs berantem kan? Coba didiscuss sm pacarnya, jgn marah2 dulu. Aku sering bgt discuss sm pacar ku soal apa yg aku gak suka/sebaliknya. Jujur aku jarang berantem, malah lebih sering berantem pas pdkt. Tp ya not all relationships are erflies & rainbows, pasti ada painpoints-nya. Tinggal gmn kt & pacar menyikapinya ajaaa hihiy

Jelasss dongggg, kayaknya 2.5th dh cukup ya untuk tidak pernah pamer kebucinan? Wqwqwqwq

Hueee siapa iniii 🥲 iyaa akhirnya go public tipis2 yaaa hahahahahha kyknya tp gak akan show off llanjut sampai lamaran & nikah :) xixixixi

Aku miss u nya cowok ku

Aku gak miss you tp

Pacar ku statusnya jg bkn PNS koook krn dia di nsi pemerintah independen bukan di kementrian/lembaga ☺️

Wkwkwkw kapan ya mas ayo jawab ayang

Jiakhhhh beneran baru sadar teknik lagiii :-`) kl kerja dimana, di bwh dh prnh dijawab kooo. Blm ganti pacar ku wkwkwkwk

Anak teknik lagi gk jah? Wkwkwkwk

Waah you probably have no idea how it feels like!!! Happy, content, satisfied- you name it. It`s like all the years I spent waiting for the right one arent nothing. Worth all the wait. Worth all the patience. It`s not always happiness & erflies, yes, but still worth every bit of it. Kayak lagunya I Finally Found Someone-nya Bar Streisand hehe~

Who is this :`) makaciii banyak :-)

To see the significant other starts losing interest slowly in you and have no idea what to behave and you just sit there wondering where it went wrong

Cerita mainstream diselingkuhin ku udah paling nyesek blm? Wkwkw

24-25 wkakak Aamiin:))

Udah pernah dijawabb

Hahahaha helluuuu siapa ini

Hweee siapa inii haha makasyiii banyak yaah! Semoga kamu juga bahagia dan sehat selaluuu 🤗

Jujur gatau hrs ketawa apa sedih bacanya i dont know who u are but thank you for concerning about my love life but im good honey. He has been all kind caring and stuffs better than all my last ones. <3 hope you have a very nice day! Stay safe & healthy

Hahaha hellooo siapa inii! Udah lama banget kayak udah terlalu ubanan jg utk dibahas. Jd mending gak usah yaaa, I choose to not tell my side of story so I didn`t give fuel to the flame. :-)

Sebenernya ada apa sih?

malah dia yg repot2 nulis panjang lebar.. gpp aku maklumin kok, krn aku juga ada salahnya meskipun memang ga kayak apa yg dia jelasin, tp tiap org pasti punya pov masing2 deh ☺️ jadi udah yaa tmn2, im good kok regardless what strangers think of me. krn Alhamdulillah masih banyak temen supportive jugaaa heheh

gapapaa, biarin ajaaa. gaperlu klarifikasi2an hahahaha aku mah anaknya emg diem aja. kl pun pd tau & percaya ya gapapa, malah aku jd mudah utk memfilter relasi 😁 im still surrounded & loved by closest ones around. im doing good at work, still. so i have no problems at all. people perceive what they`re capable of, and im a firm believer that when people do you wrong, let the truth speak itself. biarin ajaa, mau sampai fitnah juga ngga apa2. ngga ngerugiin aku kok ☺️

di nsi pemerintah pokonya 😁

wkwkw belom saatnyaa, tipis2 dl ya haha

hahahahah apaanziii pdhl dr kmrn jg gada yg mendekat 🤣

Gilaa gilaa berat emnggg saingannya sama orang kerja, pantessan 😅 patah hati deh semua nyaa

HAHA Alhamdulillah krn sama2 bekerjaa jadi gada tunggu2an balesan krn sudah mengertiiii heheh

Dia kuat nih jah nungguin balesan mu yang lama banger? Hahahaa

lol mana ada tinggi bgt, bukan kriteria si btw. cm memang aku menerapkan apa hal yang memang bisa aku tolerir & apa yg nggak sama sekali. Alhamdulillah ga tinggi2 amat soalnya masih ada tuh buktinya wkwkwk

hehehe 😊

Seriusan ini zahnia udah punya cowo??

💔

☺️

Closed for business maksudnya zahnia udah punya pacar??

oh iya? secretonya siapa tuh wkwkwk ya emg mikir 2x, kan dh closed for business lol 😂

Deketin kamu

emmm banyaak! menang lomba minimal 5x, ikut organisasi olahraga & non olahraga, ikut organisasi di fakultas & univ, ikut event univ & fakultas, lulus tepat waktu, cumlaude, lulus sidang tanpa revisi, dapet kerja sebelum wisuda, bisa part time pas kuliah, bisa intern pas kuliah, bisa dpt pacar (lol), ikut conference & exchange, ikut proyek dosen, dpt beasiswa, punya temen banyak, ikut ngetim, dll dll. ada yg ga kesampean, yg exchange sama ikut ngetim wqwq tp overall Alhamdulillah checked! yey

aw maaci siapa nichhh

yes... bcs i consider myself as someone who would be down head over heels to someone lol 🥲

jalan kaki, keramas, makan buah dingin, wangiiii, maskeran (aplg yg wangii!), centangin to do list seharian, kutekan, dkk dkk! so manyyy

banyaak wkwk ga nentu, kl online di lozy, mallow, diario, daissy. macem2, kl offline ya banyakk. kl nyari yg motif zoya ato elzatta biasanya

Biasanya beli krudung dimana jahh

hi hiii, itu dr diario ya bebb, lupa nama warnanya pokonya yg grey seriess! hope that helpsss :D

WKWKWK jujur aku jg sering tbtb direply sm org yg cm tau2 aja (aku tau dia cm kt gprnh ngobrol/omong2an gt). Jd mnrt ku ya gpp jg sih?? Selama aku follow km di ig, brrt i know you jd ya wajar aja kl ada yg tbtb reply. Cm aku anaknya emgs bgt balesin dm:(((((((

WHO IS THIS I CHOKED

Heluuuu dengan siapa dimana ya

Dihhh emg crackhead kemane sampai hrs dikangenin? Hadehhh ada2 aja plis bs berhenti soal crackhead gaaak

Maaciiiiiiii hehehe lho baru tauuu apa gmn he he he 🙂🙏🏻

Emg kenapa kira kira

Jangan tanya aku, aku orangnya susah moveon kl dh ktm 1 yg cocok pst susah bgt moveonnya biarpun dh ga brg lg 😂 it takes long time & big energy for me, km salah nanya

Someone used to ask this to me every week back then... are you the same person pls dont leave me questioning who you are 🥲

Duh sbnrnya sih aku sering bgt ngomongin ginian tp di second acc ku wkakak. Ya pokonya aku gapapa bgt kalau misal pas ktmu itu kita sama2 belum 100%. It`s very okay to figure things out ther. As long as he has a growth mindset aja sih, ga yg go with the flow gituuu & ada usahanya. Dah gt aja sie, aku cukup sering dpt kayak ginian, bahkan tmn2 ku jg suka nanya/takut kl mo ngenalin temennya ke aku. Pdhl yg srg minder justru aku 😂

Wkwkakak anjir :)) gapernah mikir gitu malah seringnya aku yg minder kl dideketin yg udah mapan wkak kayak "aku punya apa kl dibanding dia?" gt. Bawa mobil maneee aku di jogja naik motor kale 😂 dan sejujurnya jg yg kalian tau kan luarnya aja ya, akuh sering insecure gt anaknya sbnrnya wkwkw aplg buat self proclaim kl aku alpha female, yaampun im nowhere near that... kalau kt tmn2 dkt ku, kl emg dia niat, he wont question his worth regardless everything else.

Jujur kl ditanya apa yg bikin aku suka? Jawabnya udah gatau wkakak udah lupa saking lamanya. Jd kl kalian nanyanya skg, maaf bgt gatau jawabannya krn udah lupa...

Loh kalian nanya stlh dia ada lg ga yg bikin aku baper? Ya ada. Kl aku suka bgt hrsnya gada dong 🥲 udah sering aku bahas crackhead dari dulu... 😂

Emg dia sebaik itu apa smpe km kyny suka bgt, terus yg km suka dr dia apa zah

Crackhead temen kuuu kokk heueueue

Crackhead itu mantan ijah? Atau cuma baper/pernah deket aja?

Adaaa kok 😂

ENGGAAA HAHAH aku kalau menyudahi itu pst sudah dipikir matang2 dan results of many long nights spent thinking from a-z wqwq jd biasanya kl "udahan" sm org, pst ya krn suatu hal kuat. bkn yg kayak "ah bosen ni udah ah" gt. pasti ada alasannya & kl disuruh nyebutin ya udah pasti inget hehehehe :") tp bkn kayak stop berteman gt ya, mksdnya mnrt ku ga cocok kalau ldr temen ajahhh

ohhh love for imperfect things & things you can only see when you slow down nya haemin sunim! easy to read tp lessons nya dapet bgtt

personal fav yg bikin mikir & reflect: becoming, men without women, atomic habits, man`s searching for meaning, brief answers to the big questions, psychology of money. yg san tp lessons learned banyak: tuesdays with morrie, the alchemist. islamic thoughts: secrets of divine love, revive your heart, reclaim your heart. novels: eleanor & park, the midnight liry, diary of wimpy kid

ya sbnrnya dr dl jg nyarinya pst yg bs smp nanti2 sih... aku dr dl kl pcrn banyak pertimbangannya, jd yg emg dh pasti dpt restu ortu + bs sampai nanti2. cm ya namanya jodoh ngga ada yg tau y wkwkw yg jelas skg emg i date to marry... buset serius amet ni ya jawabannya

WKWK ya ngpn jg jd selingkuhan org yaampun i still have my own dignity pls 🥲 wqwq moveon mah bukan self-acclaimed, biar org aja yg nilai 🙂🙂 BTW INI SIAPA SIE KOK TAU BGT CRACKHEAD, judging from how you type, pasti ini orang lama dr dl dh di secreto ku ya. knp ga prnh muncul ke permukaan sih 🥲

Klo bener jd selingkuhan crackhead nanti malah yg ada makin dimiripin nisa sabyan jah wkwkwkwk

Haha becanda yakali jg ijah mau. Masi banyak yang lebih baik dr dia, gausah baper lagi :p Eh ijah kynya jg udh mupon yee skrg wkwk

sembarangan bgt u ye kl ngmg nyamnyem bg😭 ya mnrt u ajeeee

Klo disuruh jadi selingkuhan crackhead mau gk jah? Wkwkwkwkwk

btw tbtb bgt dehh nanya crackhead ini siapa gile wkwkw

ketemuan ngga... terakhir awal taun ini kl gasalah? around jan/feb gt. kl komunikasi kl ada kebutuhan aja.. i know my boundaries & i respect his gf juga soalnya

dulu banyak sih wkwkw kl skg cm 1: kl klemar klemer. selebihnya gada hal2 khusus yg bikin aku ilfil sih..

i seriously dont know how to react. whoever you are, thank you for reminding me about this song. stay safe and healthy : )

WKWK ini siapa ko bs tanyanya sama kayak ketakutan ku dulu 🤣 i dont judge people yg dkt sm aku based on their past, as long as he`s honest & open then those are the things that i value in them. I`m not that unapproachable kok 🥲

lol ini siapa wqwq thank u ya!

ya tergantung gmn cara kt menyikapi baper itu.. kalau kt baper trs cross the boundaries &h mengarah ke arah cheating, ya salah.. there are a lot of ways to cheat, dan cheating comes in both ways. yang nerima ada salahnya, yang ngulurin lebih salah lagi :))

thankssss! stay safe & healthy :)

hehe i knowww thank youuu!

How do you stay calm during this times?

xixixixxixix i knew :)

WKWK lol who is this

uuuw cayank

emgnya hrs seneng dl ya br boleh ngetweet... trs aku selama ini jarang krn kalian ngiranya aku lg sedi? yach sedi bnrn ni aq 🥲

HAHAHAH WHAAAT this is super cute 🥲🥺 thank uuuu <3

*nst *heaven

Pku apa ya taunya rs pku muhammadiyah... tp kynya im sure this wasnt my exes` gf deh. yg pny pcr skg cm 1, and judging from how we ended up, he most likely wouldnt say good things about me lol

yang dari pku bukan sii hihihi

wah aku malah no clue at all ini siapa hiks :(( keren bgt u bs tau

Wah kayanya aku tau ini siapa

hi there :) im so sorry about the insecurities that you need to suffer. everyone has their own uniqueness okay? meskipun aku gatau siapa pacarmu juga (most likely not all my exes). i dont know how to react honestly huhu semoga langgeng2 yaa sama pacarnya! stay happy! :)

ya san aja gt???? mksdnya masalah idup dh banyak, kl pcrn cm buat nambah masalah ya buat apa jg kan:( mgkn aku bete sih biasanya tp ya bete sendiri gt & sembuh sendiri biasanya wkwkw i need a lot of me time too. dan aku bukan tipe yg dependent bgt.. i can do anything i need to do on my own, and my bf would act as an essential support system, besides my family. ya berantem2 wajar kok kalau pacaran, cm kalau keseringan jg capeqqqq bre. ya gt lah dapet kan ya intinya? wqwq

wkakaka. jujur aku bukan org yg suka micromanage. krn dh gede jg, yg ptg kan komitmennya. aku tipe yg apa2 dikomunikasiin, jd kalau misal ga chat 24/7 jg ok bgt, krn aku ada kesibukan, dia juga. aku jrg bgt cemburuannnn jd yg ptg tau boundaries aja. im not the clingy type jg wkwk ya yg sewajarnya aja lah. yg ptg punya mutual understanding soal boundaries & choices yg emg fundamental. dr sejak pcrn dl mesti yg sukanya ngambek/marah malah pacar ku, akunya jarang:( diblg cuek jg ngga siih

we`re all good and i`ve been in all 5 stages of grief so no worries at all :)

Why is reading this so heart breaking ..

WKWKWK apa yaa, cm mau blg aja kalau you did mean something back then. you really did. even until now, you still hold a special place noone could replace. you did nothing wrong, i was the one to blame since i let myself feel things i know that you dont. i might be lying if i said i never expected you to regret letting me go bcs i did. but then again, you were never mine to begin with. i was so denial about all the signs & red flags. all things aside, we are definy still friends.

Apa yang mau kamu bilang ke orang tersebut? Things unsaid these times that you want to tell him?

do you guys really think i would tell you who he is...? telling that this time last year is my last heartbreak is a big hint already.

Are you talking about crackhead here Zahnia? Sound like you do

i did forgive him, even when he didnt feel sorry for doing so. i never received the apologize or the regret that i was waiting for back then. but thats life, right? you dont always get what you want. i hold no grudges against him tho, i`d still wish him the best the world could give, and i hope the world is kind enough to always surround him with the happiness he deserves. i dont hate him either. he deserves to be with someone of his choice, and so do i.

Who hurt you? Do you forgive him for hurting you Zahnia?

im not going to lie. this time last year.

have we ever talked before? give me more clues...

u know me before

serem bgt wkwkwkw who are u