my dad was a serial cheater. he asked to call another woman “mama” when my sister is 5 and it hurts her a lot. later on, he kept changing the woman but never really change: a serial cheater. there’s nothing wrong with my mom: she’s pretty, strong, business woman and is financially independent—she pays for almost everything. the peak moment was when i was 14-15yo, thus i can’t remember anything from that year except for i was a junior high schoolers. at the end, my mom choose a hurtful choice: staying ther with my dad. causing my sister’s depression, my brother’s anxiety and confusion for me. what should i do? i refuse to accept him again because he even doesn’t think he’s wrong. but on the other side, it feels wrong to not respect him as a father. i never talk about this to someone, everyone thinks my family is keluarga cemara :D

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