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hi ayum! ak mau cerita soalnya lg not feelin secure. so my ex gfs still stalk my acc, & she compares herself to me. she said she`s prettiest bcs i have tan skin and my body`s petites meanwhile she`s not. knp aku tau soal ini? i once stalked her acc and found out her tweet kaya `kalo diliat liat ternyata putihan gua ya drpd pacarnya si a yg skrg. kaki sama dengkulnya item gt ga sih wkwkw` & tweet lainnya yg tiap aku baca sakit bgt. dia jg prnh singgung soal aku yg ga prnh pake baju ketekan pasti ketek aku juga item. yes i totally have it and i think it`s normal to have it tho? aku juga blm merasa sepd itu buat pake baju terbuka bcs i have tan skin, & i`m afraid of what others think. but i`m trying to be more confident about my skin type kok. is there any suggest about being confident? bcs after knowing about this, i`ve become more ovt, scared, and lacking confidence in myself. bahkan sampe deact semua acc aku kec my secc account. i feel like i don`t deserve to be loved by my gfs too :(
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uhh pelik banget ya urusan sama ex dan insecurities. :( apa ya... menurutku insecurities tuh wajar sih, dan datengnya kayak waves? kadang besar, kadang kecil.. tapi akan selalu ada dan apalagi kalau ada comparison ya? well here is the take: that is okay kalau kamu mau deact dan lakukan apapun yang bs balikin rasa confidence kamu dulu. socmed tu kadang amplify hal yang sebenernya gak segede itu kok. semua orang spesial dengan cara mereka masing-masing. and you got a gf now, dari situ aja berangkatnya bahwa someone alr choose you, you shall choose urself too every. spt kata nku waktu itu, sampe matipun cm kamu doang yang gak akan ninggalin diri sendiri so make sure you love urself more than anything in this life. mungkin mau coba dilist dulu hal-hal yang bikin kamu seneng? atau hal apa dalam dirimu yang bisa kamu banggain. semoga lekas kembali ya confidencenya. rehat dulu pun gapapa kok! - ayum