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this is very random but uni / college life is so lonely why does it feels so to create friendship
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I hit submit bfr i could finish!! BUT anyway- you’re not alone and it’s comply normal! I think this is the BEST time to learn to enjoy your own company. What I really let sink in during this time is the fact that the one who’s going to be stuck with us until we die is…us! You! As an individual! So it’s good that we get the chance to get to know them better. E.g; in uni i have so much free time alone and I learned that I apparently LOVE LOVE LOVE looking at trees and taking a walk! I also learned that i like true crime podcast the best while i was doing these walks! I discovered some cool paths and hang out spots that i can take my friends to… anyway it can feel demotivating sometimes (and that’s okay) but it’s not all bad if you’re looking at the bigger picture :)

So true!! I think what NO ONE warned us before abt how lonely stepping into adulthood is, like everyone is figuring things out themselves and sometimes it does feels like we cant speak up abt our struggle 🫠 not sure why.. it just does