no, pola pikir umur 19 sama 14 itu beda. minor gampang di manipulasi, that`s why it`s not a good idea to have a relationship when the other partner is still a minor, walaupun jarak umur cuma 2thn or 1thn lebih baik nunggu sama" legal so we can prevent something bad to happen. lebih baik mencegah daripada mengobati kan. yoi, i know that u are giving ur own opini but still edukasi ttg kaya gini jg perlu, jadi bukan cuma masalah umur tapi apa dampak kedepannya dan gimana kesiapan mental serta pola